Saying “Yes” – XP





Last Monday, the 14th, I’m just about to pack up my work and head home for the day when I get an email from a producer inquiring about my appearance on a national TV show.  ‘Wow, how crazy,’ I chuckle to myself and aside from texting my wife and a couple of friends about the email, I basically dismiss the idea from my head,  filed under flattered-to-have-been-offered-but-yeah-right.  TV show guest??  That is so not me.

But somehow, one thing led to another, and I found myself on the phone with the producer that night for a “pre-interview” and travel plans in my inbox by the time I woke up the next day.  Wednesday morning (of.that.same.week) my family of 5 is in the airport about to take our first cross-country trip for an appearance on The New Ricki Lake Show in California.


Talk about a whirlwind! Over the course of the next few days, I did about 100 things I never thought I’d ever do, including flying with 3 young children, being chauffeured around by a driver in LA, and sitting for a chat with a famous talk show host on national television.  Fears, obligations, insecurities, and all other hindrances be damned – we said ‘YES’!


It was an adventure of a lifetime and the kids loved every minute of it – we all did!

Okay, so there was that hour of screaming 2-year-old on a packed plane, in which I was cursing my wife for talking me into the whole thing, but one way or another (3 chocolate chip cookies, 1 lollipop, and a Chuggington DVD) we survived and much more exciting moments awaited us.

As if all that weren’t enough, I finished out the week with 2 newspaper interviews and my second TV appearance, this time with Cara and Scot on Better Connecticut!


Have I mentioned this is so not me??  Except it was, and it is, because I took a chance and said ‘yes’.

After the show wrapped, an audience member complimented me on my composure then said, “Well, I guess if you can go from 0 to 3 kids and take babies with 2 hours notice, this is nothing for you!”

Yeah, I guess we do have a bit of flair for spontaneity and jumping in feet first.  But you know what?  I can’t think of a time when I’ve regretted pushing past my comfort zone and saying ‘yes’.

That one word has brought me some very wonderful things.


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2 Comments to “Saying “Yes” – XP”

  1. I am just oh-so happy for you!

  2. Beautifully written. Beautiful photos. Beautiful you!

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